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5 THINGS NO ONE TALKS ABOUT BEFORE MARRIAGE
Sometime ago in my single season, I told a married friend of mine I was going to wash his car for free in exchange for some delicious marriage advice that they hardly discuss in Church.
I mean like practical everyday things my partner and I should know before we walk down the altar, not the regular 'submit to your husband, love your wife like you love yourself, only missionary style is godly, respect your in-laws, and all other things they teach us on the surface that we have hear and tire.
I washed his car cheerfully after he shared these 5 deep facts with me, I believe it will bless you too...
- EMOTIONAL TEMPERAMENTS
Do not wait until marriage to find out how deeply emotional your partner can be, and to what limits.
What are his breaking points? How does she deal with a fight? How do we apologize after a disagreement? Is keeping mute or ignoring your calls her own idea of avoiding a fight? Does he love to be left alone after an argument as a way of avoiding a confrontation? It is so important that you talk about these things when the 'I love you' is still fresh, to help you have a good knowledge of your partner's reactions when they come.
2. HOLIDAYS AND TRADITIONS